Fix timeout integer overflow

[aale24]

Fix integer overflow in apr_wait_for_io_or_timeout by performing the microseconds to milliseconds conversion before assigning to 32-bit timeout.

The timeout overflow occurs in APR's waitio.c when converting microseconds to milliseconds for poll(), where any timeout above 28 minutes and 25 seconds fails because the 32-bit integer overflows.

The proposed fix handles the conversion before assigning to the 32-bit integer, allowing timeouts up to 24.85 days to work correctly. Since poll() itself uses a 32-bit timeout parameter and practical timeouts rarely exceed days (max around 25 days), this fix handles all real-world use cases.

I reported this bug in https://bz.apache.org/bugzilla/show_bug.cgi?id=69542