[Enhancement] Throttle scan to wait for topn filter (backport #55660)

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Why I'm doing:

High associative hash join is time-consuming, since it magnifies data volume many times. if there is a topn operator above it, then we can use this topn filter generated by topn operator to reduce input data volume of the hash join; however, when perform tests on this, the scan operator below hash join always transfers data to the hash join so fast that make the topn filter take effects on scan operator too late, so input data volume of the hash join is not reduced successfully, so we design a back pressure mechanism that works as follows:

1. scan operator allows rows of 10 times of limit+offset in topn operator to pass through to hash join operator, then wait for a small period of time(e.g. 100ms), we call this period the throttle period.
2. scan operator has_output return false in throttle period, so scan operator does not transfer any data, just give a chance to topn operator to generate a topn filter.
3. when current throttle period ends, scan operator use topn filter to filter its output data, if the topn filter is high selective, then scan operator can terminate this back pressure mechanism, just use this topn filter to filter incoming data.
4. otherwise, scan operator begins an another throttle period.
5. scan operator maybe begin throttle period for several times which controlled by the session variable: back_pressure_back_rounds, the throttle period equals to back_pressure_throttle_time_upper_bound/back_pressure_back_rounds.
6. topn_filter_back_pressure_mode is used to turn on/off the back pressure mechanism.

Test

when topn filter back pressure mechanism is opened,data volume of left side of hash join is reduced to 1/60.

when it is closed

data volume of left side of hash join is reduced to 1/60.

1. pipeline_dop=0, concurrency=20,back_pressure_back_rounds=3

+===================+==============+
| cases             | latency(sec) |
+===================+==============+
| disable opt       | 11.692       |
| enable opt(60ms)  | 5.920        |
| enable opt(100ms) | 5.853        |
| enable opt(300ms) | 5.959        |
| enable opt(600ms) | 6.279        |
+-------------------+--------------+

disable opt means turn off the optimization;
enable opt(60ms) means turn on the optimization; and back_pressure_throttle_time_upper_bound=60, i.e. total throttle time does not exceeds 60ms.

2. pipeline_dop=1, back_pressure_throttle_time_upper_bound=300,back_pressure_back_rounds=10

+=============+==================+=================+=========+
| concurrency | disable opt(sec) | enable opt(sec) | speedup |
+=============+==================+=================+=========+
| 1           | 0.991            | 0.953           | 1.0X    |
| 10          | 4.089            | 2.831           | 1.4X    |
| 20          | 7.735            | 5.034           | 1.5X    |
| 40          | 15.210           | 9.688           | 1.5X    |
| 60          | 22.760(OOM)      | 14.600          | 1.5X    |
+-------------+------------------+-----------------+---------+

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
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Checklist:

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• This is a backport pr

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   be/src/exec/connector_scan_node.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/olap_scan_node.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/scan/scan_operator.cpp
	new file:   be/src/exec/pipeline/topn_runtime_filter_back_pressure.h
	modified:   be/src/exec/scan_node.h
	modified:   be/src/exprs/runtime_filter_bank.h
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/planner/OlapScanNode.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/planner/RuntimeFilterDescription.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/planner/SortNode.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/qe/SessionVariable.java
	new file:   test/sql/test_topn_filter_throttle_scan/R/test_topn_filter_throttle_scan
	new file:   test/sql/test_topn_filter_throttle_scan/T/test_topn_filter_throttle_scan

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	both modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/operator.h
	both modified:   be/src/exec/pipeline/scan/scan_operator.h
	both modified:   be/src/exprs/runtime_filter_bank.cpp
	both modified:   gensrc/thrift/PlanNodes.thrift

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